杯酒言欢；杯酒戈矛

○杯酒言欢bēi jiǔ yán huān

饮酒欢会，释嫌修好：忽而剑拔弩张，忽而～|频年恶战后，忽然～了|后来双方～，明白先前都是误会。

●杯酒戈矛bēi jiǔ gē máo

指在宴会上引起了仇恨或争斗：没想到那次宴会竟然闹得～|情敌相遇席间，真可谓是～了。

交谈的程度

亲切交谈：燕语
　亲切交谈或密谈：促膝　造膝　倾膝
朋友间亲切交谈：说亲道热
近距离、面对着面坐着交谈：膝谈　促膝交谈　促膝而谈
　近距离、面对着面坐着长时间交谈：促膝长谈
愉快地交谈：欢语
　欢乐地交谈：娱谈
欢快地交谈：言欢
　相聚饮酒，欢快交谈：杯酒言欢
恳切地交谈：恳谈　款话　款谈　谈款
　款叙，恳谈：謦谈
　亲切交谈，恳谈：款语
从容地交谈：宴言
尽情地交谈：倾语　痛谈
毫无拘束地交谈，气氛融洽：抵掌而谈　指掌而谭　抵掌而谈　抵掌高谈　高谈抵掌
真诚交谈：款对
　真诚而尽情地交谈：顷谈
倾心交谈：倾谈
　谈心，倾心交谈：论心
深入交谈：深谈
交谈投机，意气相合：入港
拉杂交谈：扯谈　扯淡

杯酒言欢bēi jiǔ yán huān

drink happily together;make up after a drink
❍ 忽而误会消释了，忽而～了，……(鲁迅《伪自由书·观斗》5) Their misunderstandings are suddenly cleared up,and they drink happily together，…/但后来两方相见，～，就明白先前都是误解，……(鲁迅《三闲集·在钟楼上》20)…once they meet and make up after a drink they will realize that it was all a mistake…

杯酒言欢bēi jiǔ yán huān

形容聚在一起喝酒，欢快地畅谈。drink together and chat freely